“How lucky am I, to have lost what I wanted, to find what I deserved”
I received an Advance Reader Copy (ARC) of this book from the publisher for review purposes.
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How Lucky Am I? tackles the imposing subject of death and attempts to disarm it. Through the surprisingly endearing figure of Mr Skelly, Watson sets out to reframe our inevitable end. Rather than a terrifying grim reaper, death is presented as a grounding reality that makes our present moments profound and meaningful. Working in a library environment, I see countless titles promising to change a reader’s perspective, but Watson’s approach stands out for its earnest, humble charm.
The book is structured around short, reflective essays, interspersed with full-page illustrations and brief quotes. The artwork is beautiful, creating a tactile, comforting atmosphere that perfectly matches the book’s gentle tone. Mr Skelly resting in a field of flowers is an image that makes the macabre feel strangely cosy.
When the writing leans into personal reflection, it resonates deeply. The essays encouraging us to find value in the in-between days, or recognising the quiet luck of simply being here to face our daily challenges, offer a meaningful perspective shift. I really appreciate how Watson gently highlights the quiet miracles of everyday life.
However, the textual execution can occasionally feel uneven, which holds the book back from being a flawless read. The longer passages offer thoughtful introspection, but the short quotes accompanying the full-page illustrations often rely on overly familiar platitudes. Sentiments that echo variations of “nothing changes if nothing changes” or “if you’re going through hell, keep going” dilute the unique premise of the book. Because the visual identity of Mr Skelly is so distinct, these generic phrases feel like missed opportunities. A bit more original phrasing in these bite-sized takeaways would have better matched the unique art style and profound themes Watson is clearly capable of exploring.
Despite leaning on some conventional advice, the overarching mission of the book remains impactful. How Lucky Am I? is a visually stunning, tender exploration of mortality, acceptance, and gratitude. It serves as a beautiful, gentle reminder to look up from our routines and appreciate the simple fact that we are here at all.
How Lucky Am I? is due to be published on 28th July 2026.
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